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School Shootings: 4 Ways to Help Small Children

January 24, 2013

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School shootings continue to be a topic of discussion on television. How do you make your kids feel safe? Friends talk about it, teachers instruct about lock-downs, and TV airways retell the stories. Find the Signs That They Are Worried Because small children don’t have enough understanding or words, they may not ask questions. That [...]

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Younger Sibling Rebels Rather Than Compete

February 27, 2012

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Teen Girl playing guitar because of sibling rivalry

In my last post, I listed several possible causes of rebellion. See What Causes Rebellion? Today, I will look at the first one only – the failure to be as good as an older sibling. One approach to child psychology says that all behavior of a younger child is driven by the need to catch up [...]

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What Causes Rebellion?

February 24, 2012

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Mother and daughter at piano with mother teaching

When a child is rebellious, there is always an underlying cause. In a nutshell, the child is trying to find a way to feel better. Even when parents are trying their best to make each child feel loved and special, he or she may see things differently. Examine your child’s situation from his or her [...]

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3 Issues Related to Changing Behavior

February 22, 2012

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There are three aspects to consider when we want to change the behavior of a rebellious child. Each is equally important and will be addressed separately. 3 Issues Related to Behavior Change Something is causing the child to rebel. There is a definite remedy related to the cause. There must be consistent discipline even while [...]

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3 Ways to Make Divorce Less Painful for Children

January 27, 2012

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Girl standing between angry, divorcing parents

God’s Word says, “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you. (Exodus 20:12). If we are divorced, we can’t just ignore that commandment because we don’t like the father or mother of our children. There are three things we can do to make divorce easier for the [...]

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The Help

August 26, 2011

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poster of movie the help-four women

We saw the movie, The Help, last Sunday. I laughed, I cried, and I cheered. It’s a great story to explain the “separate but equal” period of our history…a period that is shameful. But, I left the movie cheering the courage of those who paved the way for greater equality. Children need to understand “separate [...]

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